Today’s Truth

This High Priest of ours understands our weaknesses, for he faced all of the same testings we do, yet he did not sin (Hebrews 4:15 NLT).

 

 

Friend to Friend

For almost forty years, Margaret lived with word-inflicted wounds that nearly destroyed her life. From the first day she attended her one room schoolhouse, she and her teacher, Ms. Garner, didn’t get along. Ms. Garner was harsh, bitter, and cruel, and could not tolerate Margaret’s childish idiosyncrasies.

Margaret was nine years old when she frantically raced into class, late again. As she burst through the doors, she faced her peers jeering at her maliciously.

“Margaret!” Ms. Garner shouted. “We have been waiting for you! Get up here to the front of the class, right now!”

Ms. Garner ranted, “Boys and girls, Margaret has been a bad girl. I have tried to help her be responsible. But apparently, she doesn’t want to learn. So, we must teach her a lesson. We must force her to face what a selfish person she has become. I want each of you to come to the front of the room, take a piece of chalk, and write something bad about Margaret on the blackboard. Maybe this experience will motivate her to become a better person!”

One by one, the students wrote their life-smothering words, slowly extinguishing the light in Margaret’s soul. “Margaret is stupid! Margaret is selfish! Margaret is fat! Margaret is a dummy!” On and on they wrote until twenty-five terrible scribblings of Margaret’s “badness” filled the chalkboard.

The venomous accusations taunted Margaret on what felt like the longest day of her life. After walking home with each caustic word indelibly written on her heart, she crawled into her bed, claimed sickness, and tried to cry the pain away. But the pain never left.

Jesus understands what it feels like to have people call you names. People called him a blasphemer (Matthew 9:3), the prince of demons (Matthew 9:34), an evil spirit (Mark 3:30), and a lawbreaker (Mark 2:24). His own family said that he was crazy (Mark 3:21). Yes, He knows what it feels like to have a broken heart—figuratively and physically.  

A paraphrase of today’s truth says it this way: “We don’t have a priest who is out of touch with our reality. He’s been through weakness and testing, experienced it all—all but the sin.” (Hebrews 4:16 MSG). He understands.

Let’s go back to Margaret for a moment. After four decades of depression and anxiety, she had finally sought help from a psychologist. Two long years of weekly counseling helped Margaret finally extricate herself from her past. It had been a long and difficult road, but she smiled at her counselor as they talked about her readiness to move on.

“Well, Margaret,” the counselor said softly, “I guess it’s graduation day for you. How are you feeling?”

After a long silence, Margaret spoke. “I…I’m okay.”

The counselor hesitated. “Margaret, I know this will be difficult, but just to make sure you’re ready to move on, I am going to ask you to do something. I want to go back to your schoolroom and detail the events of that day. Take your time. 

Describe each of the children as they approach the blackboard; remember what they wrote and how you felt—all twenty-five students.”

For forty years, she had remembered every detail. And yet, to go through the nightmare one more time would take every bit of strength she had. One by one, she described each of the students vividly, as though she had just seen them, stopping periodically to regain her composure, forcing herself to face each of those students one more time.

Finally, she was finished, and the tears would not stop, could not stop. Margaret cried a long time before she realized someone was whispering her name. 

“Margaret. Margaret. Margaret.” 

She looked up to see her counselor staring into her eyes, saying her name over and over again. Margaret stopped crying for a moment.

“Margaret. You…you left out one person.”

“I certainly did not! I have lived with this story for forty years, and I know every student by heart.”

“No, Margaret, you did forget someone. See, he’s sitting in the back of the classroom. He’s standing up, walking toward your teacher, Ms. Garner. She is handing him a piece of chalk and he’s taking it, Margaret, he’s taking it!  

Now he’s walking over to the blackboard and picking up an eraser. He is erasing every one of the sentences the students wrote. They are gone! Now he’s turning and looking at you, Margaret. Do you recognize him yet? Yes, his name is Jesus. 

Look, He’s writing new sentences on the board. ‘Margaret is loved. Margaret is beautiful. Margaret is gentle and kind. Margaret is strong. Margaret has great courage.’”

And Margaret began to weep. But very quickly, the weeping turned into a smile, and then into laughter, and then into tears of joy.”[1]

For forty years Margaret had limped through life with the pain of a broken heart. But finally, she allowed Jesus, the Healer, the Comforter, the Great Physician, to bind up the broken heart and allow it to heal.

Jesus calls you names…and they’re all good. What is Jesus writing on the chalkboard about you today?

You are chosen.

You are dearly loved.

You are holy.

You are beautiful.

You are pure.

You are my bride.

I have your name engraved on the palm of my hand.

 

Let’s Pray

Dear Lord, thank You that I am a new creation in Christ Jesus. I can almost picture You walking to the front of the room and writing my new identity in Christ on the board. Help me to see myself as You see me and never believe the lies that tell me otherwise.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

 

Now It’s Your Turn

Do you see yourself as God sees you? Holy? Chosen? Dearly loved? Pure? Righteous? Having the mind of Christ?

Go back up the list and ponder how God sees you. Are there any names that you need to erase from the chalkboard of your mind? 

  [1] Adapted from: Ron Lee Davis, Mistreated (Portland, Oregon: Multnomah Press, 1989), p. 86-89.

 

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10 Responses to “Seeing Yourself as God Sees You”

  1. Avatar photo Sheila says:

    Morning Sharon
    I was Margaret for years. Actually up until not long ago. I pray I never go back to that place again. All that matters is how God sees me.
    Blessings

  2. Avatar photo Carol says:

    Great devotional this am, Sister Sharon
    Had a 1st grade teacher treat me in a similar way (had an “accident” due to teacher’s refusal to let me use the R&R; I had to stay in wet clothes all day).
    My little heart was so ashamed and sad, I “learned” to shut down at a very early age.
    It has taken me many years, to realize how a small abuse can turn into a huge scar, which effected my spirit to fear.
    But, all that matters now is that I’m a Daughter of the Most High! I know Jesus saw me, and as I look back now, He has given me blessings….more than I can even count!

  3. Avatar photo Monika says:

    What a beautiful picture of God has done for each of us! Changed into the Glory of His Image. Thank you. Will remember this amazing illustration and share it with others

  4. Avatar photo Sherry says:

    Thank you so very much Sharon!
    Carol, I experienced the very same thing in fourth grade, I wasn’t allowed to go to the restroom and I has an accident sitting at my desk. I felt so ashamed and humiliated. My teacher also made me put my gum on my nose when I was caught chewing gum, then she sat me in the hallway where other classes could see me. I’m the youngest of 6 children and was told to shut-up by my siblings during family discussions. I have to admit I was a talker. I’m just receiving healing for those scars after 69 years. I now know Jesus was with me helping me to endure those painful times. Now when I look in the mirror I see a woman who is “fearfully and wonderfully made,” a woman who was chosen and blessed by her Heavenly Father and Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Glory to God!

  5. Avatar photo Carol says:

    Blessings to you, Sherry!
    Jesus saw you that day , also!
    You, like all the GIG community, are a member of the Proverbs 31 Circle!
    Thank you for the Blessing and Sharon, Blessings to you also.

  6. Avatar photo Pam says:

    HI

    That was so powerful i was sitting at my desk having a childhood trigger i am 60 years old and need to be healed so desperately.

  7. Avatar photo Chelsi says:

    I absolutely loved this devotional. It really spoke to my heart. Growing up I was called a lot of names and this was the reassurance I needed!

  8. Avatar photo Jan says:

    Reading this reminded me of the many years in my marriage, I felt I was never enough for my husband. Due to a bump in the road of our marriage, I sought Christian counseling which helped me to see that I do measure up. My self worth improved and I became a much stronger person. Until our senior years, my husband never really understood how some of his actions contributed to how I saw myself as not measuring up. We have been marri d 69 years, 24 of which I have been his caregiver as a stroke left him disabled at age 64. I know God loves us just as we are and that today, I am valued by Him and my husband.

  9. Avatar photo Tammy says:

    I would like to just say this is beautiful and very helpful. Thank you for this.

  10. Avatar photo Sherry says:

    Oh Pam, Jesus knows you pain and longs to heal you. I’m praying for you and I believe Carol is praying too. Father God, You know what Pam has endured. The hurt and humiliation she has felt. Please bring loving, understanding Christians into her life to show Your love, understanding and complete acceptance. Help Pam to know she is loved and the beautiful woman You created her to be.
    In the Mighty Name of Jesus! Amen

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