Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom (Psalm 90:12, NLT).
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I once read an African proverb, “Lord Jesus, make my heart sit down.” The first time I read those words, I immediately thought of my husband who often says, “Honey, it really is okay for you to sit down and rest.” I tend to work myself into what my mama called a “tizzy.”
I have back problems … but sometimes pride myself on how much pain I can handle … instead of doing what I need to do. Rest.
I struggle with clinical depression every single day … but have been known to ignore the warning signs that it is time for me to stop, be still, and rest.
I have to admit I struggle with the idea of rest. For years, I measured my worth by how much I did and how well I did those things. Then I crashed and burned. For two years, I sat at the bottom of a deep dark pit of clinical depression. I learned many important lessons – one of which was my innate need for solitude and rest.
Solitude is deliberately setting aside time to “sit down” at the feet of Jesus. It is in those still, quiet moments of solitude at His feet that we can more clearly hear God speak. I also learned that in order to practice solitude, I needed a new perspective on time. In short, I needed to learn how to budget my time and invest it wisely – instead of carelessly spending it.
Time is a precious gift. Every morning we are credited with 86,400 seconds. No balance is carried into the next day, and every night erases what we fail to use. If we use it in the wrong way, that time is lost forever and cannot be reclaimed. Un-budgeted time gravitates to our weaknesses, is stolen by others, or wasted on the unimportant. We must budget time, just as Jesus did.
Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men (Luke 2:52 NIV).
At the age of 12, Jesus traveled to Jerusalem with His parents for the annual Passover Celebration. When they discovered Jesus was missing, they assumed He was traveling with friends. He wasn’t. Jesus was in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers and asking them questions (2:46).
My first reaction would probably have been encouraging Jesus to continue learning, asking and answering questions, basking in the looming recognition and acclaim. Instead, Jesus returned home where – for 18 to 20 years – He simply grew and matured mentally, physically, spiritually, and socially. We need to do the same.
I love the verse: “Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom” (Psalm 90:12 NLT).
Jesus Christ budgeted His time wisely, resulting in a balanced life of fulfilled purpose. We can live the same kind of life – if our priorities are right.
Our priorities need to line up with God’s plan and purpose for our lives. Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us that “there is a time for everything, a season for every activity under heaven.” If we don’t set life priorities other people will.
We need to schedule priorities – setting aside chunks of time for the important things in life. Ecclesiastes 8:5b-6a (AMP) warns, “For a wise heart knows the proper time and procedure. For there is a proper time and procedure for every delight.” Solitude – time alone with God does not just happen. We have to make it happen.
We must also stick to our priorities. The apostle Paul teaches us to make the most of every opportunity (Ephesians 5:16 NIV). Every challenge will either wreck our priorities or affirm them. Right priorities stand firm in the face of change.
One day, we will all stand before the Father and give an account of how we invested our time. Today, examine your time management habits in light of eternity. Initiate schedule changes that honor God. Make a new commitment to invest your time wisely.
Father, I recognize my need for time alone with You. I lay down my schedule, my agenda, and anything else in my life that would keep me from that time. Please forgive me for the way I often squander away the minutes, hours, and days of my life. Give me the power to invest time wisely.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Now It’s Your Turn
Is rest something you find hard to do? How can you integrate solitude into your schedule?
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