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Today’s Truth

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

(Ephesians 4:2, NIV)

Friend to Friend

We honked. Actually, we didn’t honk, but I really wanted us to. The woman ahead of us was — the slowest – drive through orderer – ever!!!

Add this to the fact that we had hungry kids in the back of the car, and a close call with a police officer who was still behind us, and people in gloves and masks all around…and all this made me nervous. C’mon lady. Move it.

Is she ever going to go? What is wrong with this person?!

My eyes toggled between the rearview mirror and the car ahead, as I tried to identify the issue. I leaned forward looking for an escape. Tension rose in my chest.

When we finally reached the Chick-Fil-A attendant, she immediately informed me, “I am going to switch to the passenger side of your car for your order. The woman ahead of you was deaf so I needed to get closer to her so I could hear her.”

She was — what? Deaf.

I couldn’t believe it. In my impatience, I complained about a woman in need of — patience. I felt horrible. Here, this deaf woman did a great job of “getting out” and I critiqued her for it?

You know, we never know what someone is going through. We never know what’s happening behind the scenes of what we see: the details of their day, their history of hurt or their million reasons why.

But, God knows. He knows their quirks as much as He knows ours.

In retrospect, I wish I extended patience, instead of getting — pushy.

Why? Because patience is never wrong. Even if it takes time. Even if it slows us down. Even if we listen longer. Even if we have to talk more. Even if we have to get out of our own mind and into someone else’s. Even if we delay our own progress.

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love” (Ephesians. 4:2, NIV).

Patience is love. It quiets discontent. It softens its response. It lets go of personal agendas. It loves by the Spirit. It discerns how to go. It makes space for others’ needs. It keeps a smile on its face. It pauses with the goal of lifting the other person up. It dismisses gripes.

It is kind to itself and to others. It extends grace. It remembers God’s patience and kindness. It, then, can really love others.

Let’s Pray

Father, when I keep my eyes on you, my heart stays in perfect peace. Will you help me with this? I need you in this hour.

In Jesus’ Name,

Amen.

Now It’s Your Turn  

Social media can be a difficult place for me to be patient. Where do you find it is hard to be patient? How can you respond differently?

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10 Responses to “When God?”

  1. Janice says:

    Love GIG devotions. I to struggle with patience on social media especially with subjects I am passionate about.

  2. Sandy says:

    What a beautiful devotion to focus on as it is my first day of school as a high school teacher meeting with her students face to face in the midst of a global pandemic. Yes, keep Christ central, let him work through me and be p-a-t-I-e-n-t. 🙂

  3. Bernadette says:

    Father help me to keep my eyes on you, in Jesus’ name, Amen

  4. Tia says:

    Father, help me to be patient with others but also with myself when I don’t get things right or as quick as I used to

  5. Carolyn says:

    Father God help me to be patient with people that hold on to the pass and things. God I know you have some think better for them. I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:14

  6. Janice, I agree. Patience is SO HARD on social media. Don’t give up! You got this.

  7. Sandy, I hope the first day went fantastic. Patience and peace are two great qualties we can walk in!

  8. Bernadette, Amen. Prayer is the right way to go, for sure.

  9. Tia, you hit the nail on the head. We practice patience first towards ourselves.

  10. Stephi says:

    I am deeply struggling with patience right now with extended family, we have very different viewpoints on the risk of the current virus situation – found out from multiple sources that hurtful gossip took place as they attacked our stance to continue distancing due to our immediate family’s immunity challenges. I feel a discernment to take recommended precautions to protect our children and we are being told to seek help for being anti-social after declining to attend a family cookout. In prayer daily over the matter, trying to find compassion and patience…

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