Apr 08
Today’s Truth
Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
Psalm 23:4
Friend to Friend
As I was putting our seven-year-old grandson Justus to bed one night, he started talking about fear. “I don’t like to be scared, Mimi. It makes my tummy feel funny and my heart gets kind of jumpy.” I thought that was an excellent description of fear. But knowing Justus and his pure heart that goes hard after God, I should have known he was not through. “But the most awful thing about fear is that I don’t think Jesus likes it, do you, Mimi? I mean, it doesn’t make Him smile, and I want to make Him smile. What do you do when you get scared, Mimi?” I soaked up the wisdom of his words and then whispered a desperate prayer for the insight to answer his question. Jesus came through
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After I shared God’s truth about dealing with fear, Justus smiled at me and said, “That’s really good, Mimi! You should tell the women you teach about it!” I promised him I would. My heart melted when Justus smiled and said, “I love you, Mimi.” And with a sigh of contentment, my precious teacher rolled over and went to sleep.
As I watched this beautiful boy sleep, I thought about his words and knew I would keep that promise – to tell women what God has to say about dealing with fear.
Admit I am afraid.
Psalm 56:3 (NRV) “When I am afraid, I put my trust in You.”
We will never be completely free of fear this side of Heaven, so it is important for us to learn how to manage fear by positioning trust in its place. Notice this verse does not say “if” I am afraid, but “when” I am afraid. No fear will be conquered until it is faced, exposed and identified. Instead, we mask fear … hoping to camouflage the weakness fear so often tries to hide.
We can put fear in its place by placing our trust in God. Someone once told me, “Mary, no one thinks you are perfect. Give it a rest!” I did. Freedom is found when we embrace our imperfection along with God’s power.
Remit fear
1 Peter 5:7 (NRV) “Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.”
Instead of clinging to fear, we must remit fear to God, or as Peter says, we must cast all of our fear and anxiety on Him. “Cast” means “to throw on” while “anxious” means “to be pulled in different directions” and is based on the old English root from which we get our word “worry” meaning “to strangle.” And that little word “all” really does mean “all.” What a perfect description of faith at work in the face of fear.
History describes the way a group of Indians tortured and killed their enemies by staking them to the ground and wrapping a wet leather strip around their necks. As the leather strap dried, it gradually cut off the air supply, choking the victim to death.
Fear literally tries to strangle our faith, but trust breaks its grip, setting us free. We can walk in that freedom, claiming it as our own when we choose to submit to the power and authority of God, knowing that where we are and what we are facing is no surprise to Him. No matter what your circumstances may be, Heaven is not in a panic. Your Father is well aware of your situation and He has a way out. He is the Way Maker. We really can trust Him.
But what do we so often do? We yield to fear, authorizing it to hold us prisoner. We willingly position the fearful circumstance between God and us. When we choose to place God between our circumstances and our fear, we choose to unleash His power in our lives.
Commit my fear to God
Psalm 27:1 (NCV) “The LORD is my light and the one who saves me. I fear no one. The LORD protects my life; I am afraid of no one.”
Confidence in God’s presence is our basic weapon against fear. In other words, give your fears to someone who really can do something about them.
When our daughter Danna was a little girl, her two greatest fears were the darkness and thunderstorms. One night, as I was putting her to bed, I heard the distant rumblings of a storm approaching. With every clap of thunder, Danna’s eyes widened in fear. When lightening streaked across the menacing sky, Danna dove under the covers and began to pray, “God, if it’s a “wittle” storm, I can just stay in my bed. But if it’s a “biiiiiiigggg” storm, I just want You to know where I’m gonna be – in mama and daddy’s bed! Amen.” Committing our fears to God means crawling up into His lap until the storm passes.
We can learn to commit our fears to God. We can choose now to trust Him with the fears we will face tomorrow.
Let’s Pray
Father, there are so many times when I allow fear to overwhelm my faith in You. Please help me trust You and choose to walk through my fear.
In Jesus’ Name,
Amen.
Now It’s Your Turn
Make a list of your top four fears. Beside each fear write one of the verses from today’s devotion and choose to trust God with that fear.
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Good morning, I’m not sure how, but so often you writing hits me right where I am. I am a woman who was married for 45 years, my husband did something unforgivable more than once and I am about to move into my own town home. I am afraid and I am resentful that, although totally innocent I am the one whose life is completely turned upside down. I have forgiven him but I cannot stay. I have asked him to get help, but he refuses so, other than to,pray for him, there is nothing I can do. I am blessed with wonderful sons, daughters in law and grandchildren, but I am so mourning the future I dreamed of that will never come. Please, pray for me. Thank you
Oh, sweet friend, I am so sorry for the pain I hear in your words. But know this … God is already there! He is in that future … the next chapter of your life. You have nothing to fear. I know it seems like you have lost everything. But maybe this is just a time of pruning to get you ready for new growth. God bless you as you seek Him and His plan for you.
Thank you for the message about fear. Seven years ago my husband and I were diagnosed with cancer 3 weeks apart. God led on such a marvelous journey of grace and love. 2 years later God called my partner in life home. My world was crushed! So God let me behave badly and let me fall down in grief and then I was reminded that God would provide all I needed. 6 months my daughter lost her battle with cancer but won the victory in Jesus. Fear did not attack me this time because I knew the God had it in his hands. Fear only strangles us but with God’s grace is always there for us. His peace does pass all understanding.
I have purchsed some books, Trusting God , for a ladies bible study but have been gripped with fear that I am inadequate to lead it and will not know the proper way to do this.
Please pray that I can find the courage to proceed.
I am so glad you purchased that book! You will find that when you just get women together they lead the discussion. God is with you and will lead you. Blessings!
My best friend of 40 years is moving out of state. Her husband has been out of work for 3 years and God provided a job that will take them 10 hours away. I am struggling with fear and sadness. She is the sister i never had and aunt to my children who are still school-age. We have always been close and able to see each other often. I am grieving loosing this. Yes, there is a lot we can do to stay connected but it will not be the same as face to face connection and I am afraid of what may happen. Thank you for this devotion on fear. I am going to write out the scriptures and post them where I can see them daily. My prayer is that God will bring someone into my life that I may not of pursued because I had the security of my long time BFF. I am also trying to see refuge in my Lord who wants me to depend on Him for everything. I know this is yet another opportunity for my faith and relationship to grow with Christ. I just wish my heart wasn’t so sad.