Aug 06
Today’s Truth
Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones (Proverbs16:24 NIV).
Friend to Friend
Have you ever had times when you felt like you just couldn’t breathe? Stress weighs you down and the 
“to-do list” becomes the “too-much-to-do list.” Sometimes we just need a friend to come and breathe life into us. And one of the ways they do that is with words.
When I was in my teens, I went scuba diving with some friends. I had no training and probably shouldn’t have been in deep water, but I was a teenager and threw caution to the wind. The guy who took me below the surface of the deep, another teenager I might add, strapped an oxygen tank on his back, a mask on his face, and flippers on his feet. I only had a mask and flippers.
“Where’s my oxygen?” I asked.
“I’ve got it,” he answered as he patted the tank on his back.
So, into the ocean we jumped. He put his arm around my waist as though I were a sack of potatoes and down we went. John drew oxygen from the tank and then passed the breathing apparatus to me. We took turns breathing in the oxygen in what he called “buddy breathing.” It then occurred to me that I was totally dependent on this boy to keep me alive!
Buddy breathing reminds me of the life-giving words of my friends that I’ve experienced through the years. Words that have been like oxygen when I’ve felt like I was drowning.
Solomon wrote, “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones” (Proverbs 16:24 NIV). Life-giving. Soul-nourishing. Buddy-breathing.
He also painted a beautiful portrait of the power of a woman’s words to her friends in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10,12 (NIV).
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If they fall down, they can help each other up. But pity those who fall and have no one to help them up… A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
It is often with words that we pick up a friend who’s fallen down.
I’ve noticed through the years that a true friend is one who knows what I need without me even asking. She is someone who will offer to pitch in and help when she sees me growing weary. A true friend never sees the mess in my house, but the love in my eyes. She listens without judging but sets me straight when she sees me straying off course. She never ridicules my children or my husband and encourages me to love them better. A true friend says, “I believe in you, and I’ll be the first to blow the horn at your celebration party!” A true friend passes me the oxygen of an encouraging word when I feel like I’m drowning.
We can embrace a friend with words that warm a chilled soul, words that fill an empty heart, and words that lift her up when she is lying face down in defeat. I’m so glad that friendship was God’s idea, aren’t you? Not only do we need those kinds of friends, but we also need to be that kind of friend.
Let’s Pray
Heavenly Father, thank You for being a friend who breathes life into my aching soul. I ask that You give me one friend with whom I can be totally honest with and completely loved by. Give me one friend whom I can encourage and who can encourage me. Help me to be a woman who not only needs from others but one who gives to others. Help me be a speaker of life.
In Jesus’ Name.
Now It’s Your Turn
Read Luke 1:26-45. Do you think Mary felt like she just had the wind knocked out of her with Gabriel’s announcement in Luke 1:26-38?
How do you think Elizabeth’s words to Mary made her feel in vv39-45?
Who told Mary about Elizabeth in the first place?
Why do you think God wanted Mary to go to Elizabeth?
What can you deduct from this story about the importance of godly girlfriends?
More From the Girlfriends
Sharon’s updated version of her best-selling book and Bible study guide, The Power of a Woman’s Words: How the Words You Speak Shape the Lives of Others includes a new chapter on the power of a woman’s words to her adult children…it’s complicated! Perfect for your women’s ministry’s next Bible study!
Words are one of the most powerful forces in the universe, and God has entrusted them to you! They echo in hearts and minds long after they are spoken. How will we use this gift? Your words can change the course of someone’s day…even someone’s life.
© 2021 by Sharon Jaynes. All rights reserved
Thank you Sharon for this reminder today of friendship! There is nothing quite like having a friend who will listen to you and there is nothing likewise about being a friend to someone in need that may just need a smile,a kind word, or just a hug. I have been there many times! When I read the Word, that is when I feel the love and friendship of God jumping out at me and speaking just to me and giving me a big hug! I love not having the masks on so much that we can actually see people’s lovely smiles and gestures! Because of the mask-wearing, I did not realize just how much it meant to me to be able to see the children’s beautiful smiles again! How Great is our God to be with us always and I thank Him today for being just a good friend to me! God bless you Sharon and all our GIGs!
Thank you sweet friend! We love doing life with you!
I had
I had a bestfriend in high school but for reason I never understood, abandoned me. Whenever I met her on campus, she acted like she never knew me. When I married I became friends with my husband’s close friend’s wife and it didn’t take long until we became bestfriends. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to help with something she needed desperately, she threw out the window our 34 years of friendship. Since then, it was hard to find one bestfriend, one that fit your description. I tried to be one and prayed for that friend to come by. It’s been four years since I lost her and I am longing for that girlfriend gift from the Lord again.
But guess what? You and the GIG have breathed words of life to me every time I read your devotionals. We may not know each other but God is using you all tremendously. I thank God for all of you.
Thank you soooo much!