Today’s Truth

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose,”

Romans 8:28

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I love Romans 8:28.

Now, let me be honest…sometimes I don’t.

When I am going through a dark time of loss or disappointment, and someone throws a sloppy coat of Romans 8:28 on my open wound, I just want to scream.

There. I said it.

What does God mean by “all things” anyway? I looked it up in my Greek dictionary and guess what it means—it means “all things.” I was hoping for something a little different.

“All things” includes the good, the bad, and the ugly. In every dark circumstance of life, there is a hidden treasure waiting to be discovered. However, for that to happen, we must get out of the dirt, push it aside, and look beneath the surface.

Is it easy? No.

Is it messy? Usually.

It is worth it? Always.

Many years after we had lost our second child, I was standing in the doorway of my sleeping sixteen-year-old, son’s bedroom. He was a tangle of sheets and limbs. Steven was six feet tall, needed a shave, and sported a mass of shaggy thick brown hair. Drool slid down his jaw, and a hairy leg hung off the bed.

Man, I love this kid, I thought to myself. Then a prayer slipped off my lips.

“Lord,” I prayed, “you know how much I love children, and how I always longed to have a houseful of kids. Why was there just one?”

Then, God’s Word washed over me: For God so loved the world, that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

“Is that You Lord?” I asked.

Again the words flowed. For God so loved the world, that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

The words washed over me like a spring rain on parched ground. It was a moment of sudden glory. For the first time in my life, I truly grasped the height, the depth, and the breadth of those familiar words.

See, I have a one and only son. There are many people whom I love in this world, but there is no one…no one…that I love enough to sacrifice my one and only son. And yet, God loved me so much He did that just. He loved you so much He did just that. He sacrificed His one and only Son in order to save us from the penalty of sin and give us eternal life.

With tears streaming down my cheeks, I thanked God for helping me truly understand John 3:16—for giving me a living, breathing, walking (and sometimes sleeping) example of His great love. And if that was the only purpose behind the years of infertility and loss of a child, then that was enough.

It was Romans 8:28. It was good.

Let’s Pray

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your great love for me. Thank You for giving Your Son for me. Open my eyes to see moments of sudden glory where You make Your presence known in my life. I love You so much.

In Jesus’ Name,


Now It’s Your Turn

Let’s go back and put Romans 8:28 in context. Read Romans 8:18-39.

Why do you think Paul starts 8:28 with the word “And?” What comes before the verse that tethers this thought to it?

Starting at verse 31, Paul says, “What, then shall we say in response to this?”

List the truths he lists in verses 31-29.

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7 Responses to “When God Throws a Little Bit of “All Things” in Your Life”

  1. Lana says:

    Oh how I love this message today! My life mirrors yours in so many ways as I , too, have only one son and child….only mine’s soon to be 31 years old! How can that be? What really hit home with me is the truth that God gave His ONE AND ONLY SON for ME, for MY son , for all of us! With tears streaming down my face I realize what a sacrifice that was as I could never do that with my own. What amazing love that is! Thank you for this. You bless my heart every time !

  2. Bev says:

    What if you longed for one child but infertility has not allowed it?

  3. Sandy says:

    My story is a little different. When my son died in 2011 at the age of 24, I was devistated. But God told me in a still small voice that all he asked me to do was to give back my one & only Son that he had loaned to me. He has carried me through like He promises 🙏

  4. julie says:

    I was just wondering was the last question supposed to be 29-31 or 31-39? I wasn’t sure if that was a typo? thank you for todays devotion.

  5. Gale says:

    I have always had problems with this verse. I have a 29 year daughter who is a christian but suffers from a severe mental illness. She is currently in a mental health instution. She loves god and has been involved in ministry in the past. She seems to be getting worse despite many praying for her. How can this be Gods will for her.

  6. Deirdre says:

    Hello. I so agree. It really does make you realise what John 3:16 is saying, especially after losing my only son in 2004 at 20. I am blessed I do have two daughters. But as Sandy says, that still small voice reminds you they are only on loan. That still small voice has carried me through “all things” before and after my son’s death with the promise that God works for the good of those who love him. Thank you for your devotions.

  7. Annie says:

    Wow this was so incredible and courageous to share. This shook me up this morning and gave me a beautiful reminder about the brutality he endured in order for us to live so freely.

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