Today’s Truth

Nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Romans 8:39

Friend to Friend

One blessing of being in women’s ministry is the friendships I have with other women in ministry. We are our own little band of sisters. Sisters with a mission! We cheer for one another, cry with one another, laugh with one another, pray for one another, and rejoice with one another.

One sister I’ve had the opportunity to lock arms with for the journey is named Renee. Renee is a talented God-fearing, Bible-teaching speaker and writer.

Several years ago, Renee traveled across the country to speak at a women’s retreat. When she got there, a few unexpected circumstances caused her to send out an “SOS, pray-for-me-now” email to her ministry sisters.

I got the email and hit my knees.

Early the next week, Renee sent us an email thanking us for praying and telling us what God did in the hearts of women at that retreat. She told us that she spoke about the lies that we believe as women and told personal and biblical stories that illuminated God’s truth. Then, at the final session, Renee asked the women to consider what they believed to be true about themselves.

Her challenge went something like this: “When you settle your soul long enough to simply be still—when you pause to listen to your heart—what do you hear? Are there lies that linger in your heart knowingly or unknowingly?”

She encouraged them to write down on a note card the lies they had accepted as truth, whether lies spoken by a parent, kids in the schoolyard, a friend, a family member, a spouse, a child, a pastor, or a stranger. She told them that some of the lies might never have been spoken at all, just believed.

When they finished she invited them to bring the cards to a wooden cross at the front of the room. Next to the cross she had placed baskets filled with promises from God’s Word, and after each woman nailed her card to the cross, she picked up a truth that would replace her lies.

Tears ran down cheek after cheek as the women brought their lies to the cross and embraced God’s life-changing Words. Guilt was forgiven and sorrows were traded for joy that day. Then a beautiful celebration went down. God, through his Holy Spirit, revealed His heart to those sweet women and shattered the lies of the enemy.

After the retreat was over, Renee looked through the cards that had been nailed to the cross. One card jumped out at her. Written over and over was one word: Worthless!

The woman who wrote that wasn’t the only one at that retreat who felt that way. That same word—worthless—was penned on many of the cards that weekend. It represents a lie that has been believed by most every woman at some point in her life. There have been days, weeks, and months that I’ve believed it myself.

It’s one of Satan’s favorite words to throw at us, and it is a big, fat, ugly LIE.

The Bible clearly shows us that we are valued in the sight of the Lord. When we allow God’s Word to flood our lives with truth we are changed by the height, the depth, and the width of His love for us.

“Take in with all Christians the extravagant dimensions of Christ’s love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:18–19, MSG).

God loves you with a personal love.

He knows your name.

He considers you highly valuable.

He adores you.

No matter what you’ve believed in the past, choose by faith today to believe this one truth: you are perfectly loved by God.

Let’s Pray

Dear Lord, Thank you for loving me, cherishing me, and for seeing me as valuable. Please help me to recognize any lies that my heart may perceive as truth, and strengthen me to trade in my sorrow for your joy.

In Jesus’ Name,


Now It’s Your Turn

What does your heart hear when you are still?

What lies would you write on that card?

Meditate on the following Psalm (Read it silently; then out loud.)

“Praise the Lord, O my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits—who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.” (Psalm 103:1-5)

Now, spend a few moments writing in your journal or swing over to my blog and write a prayer response on my wall.

More from the Girlfriends

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9 Responses to “A Truth That Will Change Your Life”

  1. Cynthia says:

    Praying too that women would walk in who they are in God…all my life I’ve been nothing but criticized by the very person who I thought should have been my main support system. Even though I’ve learned to accept that individual for who she is… I had to be what God called me to be…there is still some struggle because it’s family. I pray for her constantly but I still get treated the same way.
    I’ve realized I have to be the bigger person…have an attitude of father forgive them for they know not what they do.
    Thank you Jesus

  2. My mother had an unhappy difficult childhood and carried it into her adulthood. She carried the pain, unworthiness, manipulation, guilt ridden soul with her every day. In order for her to feel good about herself, she debased others. I was one of her prime targets. She chose to make me feel like nothing. I could do nothing right, I was worthless, I was useless and I was fat. She ruled my life for a very long time until I could stand it no more. I told a family secret and from that point on – I was ostracized. I had one brother who came to me and hugged me and comforted me. He believed me – he remembered it also. Knowing how very much I loved my father, she decided to use him as a tool to control it. It did not work. For 15 yrs I was not allowed to contact him. I tried – but every letter was sent back to me as return to sender. Eventually, she begin symptoms of what we know now as Alzheimer’s. A few things started getting through and I wondered what was happening. Then I got a call – my dad was in the hospital and they did not know what was wrong. I flew out after talking to his brother who told me dad did not look good. I talked to my dad, spent time with him, hugged him and loved him for 5 days before his death. Massive abdominal cancer. I saw my family, hugged everyone and went home after a time. She is still alive at 95 though her mind is gone.

  3. Jamie says:

    Please pray. Just got a crushing medical diagnosis. I’m scared.

  4. Rebecca says:

    Worthless needs to change to fearless, bold, of good courage. Look up what the Word says about you in Christ…

  5. Carol says:

    Driving now, Gwen!!! lol

  6. Ramona says:

    I wanted my sister in the Faith, Marie and Latondra to have the same amorous feeling that you have today, ladies!!!!

    Marie and Latondra – You abviously do hear from the Shepherd! you know his voice anywhere. Know this:

    God loves you with a personal love.

    He knows your name.

    He considers you highly valuable.

    He adores you.

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