Today’s Truth

They overcame him [Satan] by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.”

(Revelation 12:11 NIV brackets added).

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When the writers of the Old Testament penned the words to the long lists of lineages, the so-and-so begat so-and-so passages, they almost always listed men. Very rarely did a woman’s name make the list.

But when we turn the page from the Old Testament to the New Testament, we see God honoring women in a brand-new way. We get a hint that the tide is turning for women when we read the lineage of Jesus recorded in Matthew chapter one. Shockingly, in addition to Mary, four women were listed in the genealogy of Christ!

And whom should God choose to be set apart, chosen, and honored in the genealogy of His Son? Not Mrs. Noah, who must have been an awesomely patient woman with all those animals to take care of. Not Mrs. Moses, who must have been incredibly flexible with all that moving around in the wilderness. Not Mrs. Abraham who must have become the poster woman for senior citizens everywhere when she had a child at ninety-years-old.

No. Those are not the women that God chose to be listed in the lineage of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He chose Rahab, who had been a prostitute in Jericho. He chose Tamar, who had an incestuous relationship with her father-in-law. He chose Bathsheba, who had an affair with King David. And He chose Ruth, a nice girl from the cursed Moabite nation.

And that IS the story of Christmas. God shows us through these women’s lives that there is no place we can go that is so far away from His presence that He cannot forgive us, redeem us, and then use us for His glory. His arm is not too short to save us from the deepest pit imaginable.

I often hear women say they believe God can forgive them, but that they struggle with the idea He could ever use them. But the Bible shows us that He can, and He will—if we let Him. Your past stumbling blocks can become your God-ordained stepping-stones. Your mistakes and failures can become the very springboard from which your ministry is launched. I’m not talking about launching an international ministry, though it could be. I’m talking about your ministry to your neighbor, your co-worker, and your family.

Here this: Your greatest messes can become God’s greatest miracles.

Revelation 12:11 says this: “They overcame him [Satan] by the blood of the Lamb and the word of their testimony.” Each of the women in Matthew chapter one had a powerful story of how God plucked her from desperation, placed her on a firm foundation, and transformed her life into a portrait of admiration and inspiration.

Does that give you hope? It does me.

And that, dear sister, is what the Christmas story is all about.

Let’s Pray

Heavenly Redeemer, I am so thankful that You choose the weak things of the world to shame the wise. I am one of those “weak things,” and I am constantly amazed that You chose me and use me for Your glory. Thank You for writing my name into the Christmas story.

In Jesus’ Name,


Now It’s Your Turn

During the next few days, go back and read the stories of the women listed in Jesus’ genealogy and see what you can learn about their lives.

Rahab: Joshua 2

Tamar: Genesis 38:1-30

Bathsheba: 2 Samuel 11

Ruth: The book of Ruth

After reading about them, answer these questions:

What did God take them from?

What did God take them to?

What does this tell you about the people that God chooses and uses?

More from the Girlfriends

This is not your typical Christmas message, but it is why Jesus came. To save the lost, heal the sick, and use the redeemed. If you would like to learn more about God’s transforming power to turn your messes into His miracle, check out my book, Your Scars are Beautiful to God: Finding Peace and Purpose in the Hurts of Your Past.

4 Responses to “The Unlikely Women of Christmas”

  1. Sandy says:

    I absolutely love this message. So many times I have felt “not good enough”. A failed marriage due to adultery and abuse, left me raising two children alone. A childhood filled with shattered memories of my parents divorce, a lack of feeling wanted by my Dad set the tone for the relationships to come. My divorce sealed the deal. I was broken. From the outside, I was strong and independent. On the inside, I was a little girl crying out for help.
    Many mistakes of mistaken love for lust, too many nights of numbing the pain with alcohol; I was ashamed and knew that God would never forgive nor love me because I was unlovable.
    God put two women in my life that have taught me that it is ok to have a past, to have made mistakes and still have the capacity to love and be loved.

  2. Patricia says:

    I love reading your books, but have a question. Most seem to be aimed toward the “younger women”, which is fine. But being a woman almost 80, I find that there is not much that pertains to me. I do find reading material, pertaining to young women, having trouble with marriages, children, helps me a lot when younger women know that I have “been there, done that”, and look to me for help and courage to deal with their problems. But I too, would like to find help with problems women of my age, need help with too. Could you help me with this?
    I thank you, very much.

  3. Darlene Pope says:

    I have been reading the old testament in all the generation listed, they start with listing of who, then the mother of, so we have always been their as mothers, then the sons names, but they start with who their mom was. Getting ready today for Jeremiah. Just finished Ruth, their stories in Christ are great they were chosen in Jesus genealogy. Merry Christmas.

  4. Sandy says:

    Yassssssss! Sandy! TGIF

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