Today’s Truth

Praise the LORD! For he has heard my cry for mercy. The LORD is my strength, my shield from every danger. I trust in him with all my heart. He helps me, and my heart is filled with joy. I burst out in songs of thanksgiving.

(Psalm 28:6-7, NLT)

Friend to Friend

God is constantly at work in our lives, preparing us to do with joy what He created us to do. When we understand that God integrates every life detail to accomplish His will, a deeper level of trust takes root and grows.

God wants us to trust Him in every circumstance. Trust is letting go, knowing God is more than enough. Trust is obedience because what I do reveals what I believe about God regardless of what I say. Trust and obedience go hand in hand. The more we obey, the more we will trust and the more we trust, the more we will obey, understanding that He is indeed Lord of all. The result is joy.

We should be women of joy. That is life at its best. However, if we live under the burden of circumstances instead of seeing God in their midst, our hearts will be filled with emotional chaos or spiritual rebellion, and there will be no joy. As Christians, we should be the most joyful people on earth because we serve the God of all circumstances, Lord of every mountain, and Shepherd of every valley.

But this has been one of “those” weeks. I have heard from several friends who are ready to walk away from life. Why? Because in their hearts, marriages and ministries, there is neither joy nor peace. They cannot see God in their circumstances. The darkness is closing in as they struggle to stay afloat on the storm-tossed seas of strained relationships fueled by exhaustion, burnout, depression, and a lack of purpose for living. Anger is a constant companion, and bitterness shadows each step. This is not the way life is supposed to be – is it?

When we fail to faithfully and continually seek God, we will likely forfeit our joy to human idols and lifeless activities. We have exchanged holiness for tolerance. No wonder we sometimes find life impotent and dismal when it should be powerful and filled with unshakable joy. We are to be vessels that contain and spill over with the joy of the Lord. That joy is our strength and the salt that makes others thirst to know Him more. Instead of focusing on what is wrong in life, we need to look on the “right” side of life.

A little girl and her father were taking a walk one night. They lived way out in the country on a remote farm far from the neon signs of the city. The night was still and dark, cloaked in reverent silence. Lightning bugs pranced through the tall grass and the onyx skies, celebrating life itself. Father and daughter walked in comfortable silence, satisfied just to be together. With a contented sigh, the little girl looked up into the dark skies filled with winking stars that seemed on the verge of bursting into sparkling worship of their Creator, God Himself. The little girl was overwhelmed and cried out, “Oh, Daddy! If the wrong side of heaven is so beautiful, I wonder what the right side looks like!”

We live on the wrong side of heaven. This world is not our home. It is a broken place filled with unspeakable pain and crushed dreams. Even so, we can live in this foreign land for a while – with joy — knowing that home is waiting, celebrating here because of what we have there.

“The Message” translates the words of Paul in Philippians 4:4 this way, “Celebrate God all day, every day. Revel in Him!” I love it! Paul is calling us to party! That’s right! We are to celebrate God every minute of every day for as many days as we have. “Revel” literally means “to party, to raise the roof” or, as my Mama used to say, “paint the town red.” Every day we have a choice to make when it comes to our perspective on life. That choice then determines our attitudes which then lead to the actions that determine success or failure and the quality with which we live and serve.

Nehemiah 8:10 reminds us that “the joy you have in the LORD is your strength” (GWT).

I am not talking about the power of positive thinking. I am talking about a real, honest-to-goodness transformation of the perspective from which we live each day.

I’m talking about the power of God, active and present in every circumstance.

Don’t settle for Pharisaical religion or slot-filling, box-checking church activity. Settle for nothing less than the unexplainable but undeniable power of God’s presence at work in your life.

Let’s Pray

Father, thank You for the joy you have given me through Your love, mercy and grace. Forgive me for the times I take that joy for granted. Teach me how to look for you in the circumstances of my daily life. I want to celebrate Your presence even when I may not understand or even like Your process. I want to learn to trust You more and walk by faith.

In Jesus’ Name,


Now It’s Your Turn

Read and memorize Philippians 4:4: “Celebrate God all day, every day. Revel in Him!” Begin keeping a joy journal and search for the handprints of God in your daily life.

More from the Girlfriends

We can learn to be joyful. Use Mary’s Joy Journal for direction. This spiral bound journal will help guide you to a place of contentment and joy.

Be sure to check out the FREE MP3s on Mary’s website. And connect with Mary through email or on Facebook.

5 Responses to “The Joy of Obedience”

  1. Debra says:

    Every day I read Girlfriend’s in God. It always seems to be something I need affirmed or encouraged in. You have helped me so much and I want to be a good helper to encourage and uplift. To do anything I can for others and to be obedient and serve our awesome God! Thank You!!!

  2. Michelle says:

    As a “mature” Christian, the struggle is … “the struggle”. Who wants to admit that? God’s Word is in my heart, deeply, and I fully believe His Words. That doesn’t always remove the cloud that can keep my heart from fully seeing the joy God intended for me. Through many tears, by faith, I remain in Him…. even if it is by a thread. The joy comes through knowing how much I am loved and that Jesus will never, ever, ever let go! That TRUST cemented into my heart and mind always will draw me into His loving arms, reminding me He is ALWAYS there for me.
    In the midst of the cloudy days (and we all have them) we must know that the sun (SON) is forever shining brightly above.

  3. Elena says:

    Ooo Mary — you’re always on point, but you hit a wall with me today. My lack of joy or peace in any given moment has not been due to lack of seeking God. I have been on my knees and connecting with Him daily. Sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the darkness and ask him where He is believing that He is there and why I don’t have peace. Understanding that I can’t fathom how He’s working thru this darkness but trusting that He is; knowing that my faith isn’t based on works or religious rites. Ask Mother Teresa about all the times she felt abandoned by God in the midst of her work. Sorry sis, but you kinda missed the mark for me today.

  4. abby says:

    what if you have no joy though? just same stuff different day (ant work/disabled/no kids (health) but are foster parents but have no calls…..cant drive so kinda hard to h ae JOY in life if same thing different day. just want to lay interest in life minus church/football…used to like to bake but NOONEwil eat the stuff.

  5. Christine says:

    Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.
    Psalms 42:5 NIV

    When nothing makes sense and I dont understand what or why, and my spirit is really low this verse lifts me up. I know and believe every situation has God in it and though i may not see or understand it, He will see me through. I know when am crying, He is with me, when I am laughing, He is with me. His word “I will never leave you or forsake you” really comforts me in every situation.

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