Today’s Truth

God did not give us a spirit that makes us afraid but a spirit of power and love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7 NCV).

Friend to Friend

I do not have a green thumb. However, I once planted some flowers in our front yard. Actually, I just kind of stuck them in the ground, quickly prayed over them and hoped for a miracle.

Then a summer storm came through. I ventured outside to check on my flowers and discovered them lying on the ground, beaten to a pulp!

I lived next door to Martha Stewart’s twin sister, who had planted the very same flowers which had gone through the very same storm … but were still standing tall and proud, mocking my sad, wilted floral remnants.

“You didn’t plant your flowers deeply enough,” my neighbor sweetly explained. Evidently, the flowers were not rooted and had been easily extracted by the storm. The same is true when it comes to faith.

Faith flourishes in a heart that is firmly rooted in the Word of God. We all battle fear. Fear constantly tries to elbow faith aside, hoping to derail God’s plan and purpose in our lives.

Timothy tells us that the spirit of fear is not from God. Instead, God gives us a spirit of power, love, and self-control when we step out in faith.

“God did not give us a spirit that makes us afraid but a spirit of power and love and self-control” (2 Timothy 1:7 NCV).

Faith is a three-letter word.

Faith says “yes” to peace and “no” to fear.

It may be one tiny step or one puny choice.

It may be a whispered prayer or a desperate cry.

God always honors the choice to walk through fear. Fear trains us to anticipate the worst while faith teaches us to expect the best – even when that “best” looks a lot different than we thought it would.

The choice to walk in power, celebrate the love of God, and practice self-control, overwhelms fear and leaves peace in its place.

In the disciples’ darkest hour, waves crashing around them, trapped on a small fishing boat, They were terrified. Yet, their fear blinded them to the reality of Jesus coming to them in that storm. I love the simple but powerful response of Jesus to their fearful cries when He said, “Have courage! It is I. Do not be afraid.”

The message was stunning in its simplicity. When Jesus is with us, we do not have to be afraid. We usually get that part. But what Jesus also said was that His very presence brought courage into the mix – an audacious choice to discount the fearful circumstances simply because He was there. But it is true!

Jesus did not rebuke His disciples in their fear.

He didn’t turn away from them because their faith was weak.

I probably would have. After all, the disciples had seen Jesus perform miracles.

Water turned into wine.

Thousands fed with five loaves of bread and two small fish.

Men, women, and children healed.

And still, they were afraid. Still, they doubted. I can relate, can’t you?

Jesus “quickly” assured them of His comforting presence and His available power. Yet, Peter was the only one who believed Jesus. How do I know? True faith generates action, which is why Peter hitched up his tunic, climbed out of the boat, and walked to Jesus.

When our faith is deeply rooted in the truth that Jesus is always with us, in every storm, through every trial, we will not end up like wilted, floral remnants. We can weather every storm standing tall and strong and beautiful. What kind of storm are you facing? Don’t wait until you understand the storm. Don’t rely on your strength. Instead, choose right now to believe and see what God does.

Remember, God sees and hears your cries. He is with you. You are never alone.

Let’s Pray

Father, please forgive me when I give in to fear instead of stepping out in faith. Help me learn how to capture my thoughts and train them to focus on You. My faith is small, but I now choose to place it in You.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Now It’s Your Turn

What trial are you facing today?

What step do you need to take to face that trial with faith instead of fear?

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6 Responses to “Never Alone!”

  1. B says:

    My daughter has COVID and she had trouble breathing. I was so frightened but eventually I was able to pray. It was only when I prayed I felt a calm.
    As I read this devotion I was reminded that God saw this exact situation even before my daughter was born. He saw this situation while she was in my womb.
    I have to trust and believe that God will take her and us through this.

  2. jennifer says:


    May our Father surround you with peace that is completely beyond understanding. Hold this dear lady and her daughter in your strong arms, Jesus. Please bring healing, rest, and strength Holy Spirit to all who are in need today, Lord.


    Thanks Mary for this devotion.

  3. Carol says:

    Dear B….We are praying for your daughter today; that Jesus gives her strength,breath and peaceful rest.
    We need to remember fear binds us so tightly we can’t pray. That is a tool that the evil one uses on us. Just remember, Jesus said,”Be not afraid” and think on His words today.
    “Father God…We are praying for this sister and her child this day. Please, bring healing to her daughter with the breath that you provide for us everyday! Lord, we ask that the fear that is felt, gives way to a restful knowledge of Your presence and the peace that only You can bring! In Jesus name, we pray. Amen”
    Blessings to you B, and know that you are being held in prayer.
    Thanks, Mary for your ministry today.

  4. Mari says:

    B, I lift you and your daughter up in prayer to our mighty Healer! It is hard enough when we struggle with our own health issues, but it is a game changer when it involves our children. It helps me to remember that my daughter is also God’s daughter. And He too is very concerned when she struggles, or when she is hurt, or when she falls down. And I can trust her with Him! I can’t imagine anyone else loving my children more than I do – except God! Mary, your devotion was beautiful. I love what you said about facing every storm standing tall and strong and beautiful!

  5. We are praying for your daughter and asking the Father to heal and restore her. And I love how you have ministered to each other. We really are never alone! Merry Christmas!

  6. L says:

    Thank you for these words. I was fearful for my daughter tonight and a health issue as well. I needed this to change my perspective. I don’t know what the future holds but God does. Also, I appreciate the comments!

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