Today’s Truth

This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.

Romans 3:22-24

Friend to Friend

Sometimes I feel like such a mess, I wonder what God even wants with me. And then He reminds me that ALL His children are a mess in one way or another.

A common theme throughout Scripture is overcoming failure. Abraham passed his wife, Sarah, off as his sister because of fear (Genesis 12 and 20). Lot failed to stand up for what was right and offered his daughters to immoral men (Genesis 18-19). Jacob betrayed his father and stole his brother’s blessing (Genesis 27). Moses struck the rock twice in anger when God commanded him to strike it once (Numbers 20:11). Aaron gave into peer pressure and made a golden calf (Exodus 32).

Miriam had a bout of jealousy and tried to usurp her brother’s God-appointed position (Numbers 12). Jonah hopped on a boat and headed in the opposite direction when God called him to go to Nineveh (Jonah 1:1-3). Samson fell for the whims of a Philistine woman and gave away the secret to his strength (Judges 16). David committed adultery and murder and then tried to cover it up (2 Samuel 11).

You know what’s amazing? Most of these men and women are listed as people of great faith who “conquered kingdoms, administered justice, and gained what was promised; who shut the mouths of lions, quenched the fury of the flames, and escaped the edge of the sword; whose weakness was turned to strength; and who became powerful in battle and routed foreign armies” (Hebrews 11:33-34, emphasis added).

We have a great cloud of witnesses who can identify with failure. We are never alone in that regard.

Oh, friend, failure doesn’t have to be fatal or final. During a time of failure, the Enemy will tell you to quit trying, that you’re hopeless, worthless, and powerless to succeed.

Don’t believe him. Reject the lie and replace it with truth. “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us” (Romans 8:37). “I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13 NLT). God said, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Learn from your failure under the tutelage of the Holy Spirit, and then move on. Nothing makes the devil madder than a child of God who fails, gets back up, and tries again with the power of God moving him or her forward. The next time you feel like you have the power of God moving him or her forward.

Recognize the lie: I’m such a failure.

Reject the lie: That is not true.

Replace the lie with truth: I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength (Philippians 4:13 nlt).

Let’s Pray

God, help me to learn from my mistakes and move on. Help me not to get stuck in the mire of my mistakes or the senselessness of my sin, or the remorse of my regret, but to move forward with the reassurance of Your complete forgiveness, mercy, and grace. I don’t deserve it. I thank You for it.

In Jesus’ Name,


Now It’s Your Turn

If you’ve been sitting on the bench in your spiritual life—not getting in the game because you feel like you’re not good enough—what do you think Jesus would say to you right now?

This week, take some time to go back and look up some of the stories I’ve mentioned in this devotion. Let God speak to you about how He used them, in spite of their weaknesses.

More from the Girlfriends

Today’s devotion was taken from Sharon’s new release, Enough: Silencing the Lies that Steal Your Confidence. This book is a revised and expanded version of I’m Not Good Enough, with 50% new material.

Do the voices in your head tell you that you are not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, or just not enough, period? If so, it’s time to stop listening to the lies that sabotage your confidence and start embracing the truth of your true identity in Christ. It’s time to overcome the lies of the enemy with the promises of God.

Enough exposes the lies that keep you bogged down in guilt, shame, and insecurity. By recognizing the lies, rejecting the lies, and replacing the lies with truth, you’ll be able to:

  • silence the voice inside that whispers you’re not good enough
  • accept God’s grace and no longer allow past failures to define you or confine you
  • be preloaded with the truth to fight insecurities
  • walk in the surefootedness confidence of God’s unconditional love

6 Responses to “If You Feel Like a Hot Mess, You’re Not Alone!”

  1. C.Orris says:

    Thank You, for this loving Devotional today!
    I thought it was just me: constantly, reminding myself of all the failures of my youth! (Isn’t that where the saying “Young & Dumb” comes from??)
    I just have to remember, that my replaying of the past, is the dark side coming to re-visit and remind.
    If David could be so forgiven, by his actions; so should silly old, me!
    Bless you in your everyday, reminders that Jesus is always….there!

  2. Kim says:

    Thank you Sharon for this devotion that couldn’t of been better timing! I am going through a situation @ a new job where I have a boss that is watching every little thing I do; he’s watching to see if I’m going to fail! Well, today I have the power of the Holy Spirit to guide me, so I won’t fail!
    I’ve been a believer for 20+ years but there’s times when my faith is anything but strong, as a matter of fact it is week & I wonder if my belief will get me through my trials,
    Please pray for me today, I love your writing & resonate with your words & thoughts
    Thank you all for being my girlfriends in GOD

  3. julia says:

    HOLY COW!!!!!!!i am so glad that had rid this one and 4/10 instead of being “busy” that stuff can wait. just the good old devil trying to keep me busy and not spending time in reading these. . this sooo reminds me of my hubby right now!!!…… oh my gosh. this hit the nail on the head!!! he believes the LIES OF SATAN (failure, loser, he don’t belong, i (me) deserve better, un-forgiveness ). {wish this came few weeks ago this devotion}….. SOOOO glad that you did this one. i will so have to keep this in mind next time that get into it attacked by the devil when he tries to squirm in. just need to remind myself “in all these things we we are more than conquers through Him who loves us” romans 8:37. THANK YOU again for this. and can appreciate the prayers for my hubby would be much obliged.

  4. victoria says:

    I want to share how grateful; I am to have found a way to further my connection with my personal savior, Jesus Christ. I feel reading your devotionals help me to understand the scripture and relate my own personal, daily struggles to the word of GOD. Thanks again for giving me a Christian connection that is available directly from home.
    Girlfriends in God devotionals have helped me so much to stay on track from home as often, I struggle with finding a home church and attending regularly.

  5. Feeling like a mess .5 kids 3 teenager girls.Wondering how will keep it together.

  6. Victoria says:

    Looking out together with the Lord Jesus behind us, my friend!

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