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Today’s Truth

“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”

2 Corinthians 12:9

Friend to Friend

When I was six years old, I skipped off to school with a new box of crayons, a Swiss-polka-dotted dress, and fresh hope that I would be smart. But first grade only confirmed my greatest fear. I was “not enough.”

As soon as my first-grade teacher held up that initial spelling flashcard, I knew I was in trouble. We lined up our miniature wooden chairs in a row like a choo-choo train. The teacher held up a spelling flashcard for us to identify the word. If we missed the word, we had to go to the caboose. I spent most of the first grade in the caboose. I just couldn’t spell to save my life. For some reason, I especially had trouble with the word the.

I’ll help her, my teacher must have thought. She made me a nametag that read

t-h-e, and I had to wear it for two weeks. Students came up to me and asked, “Why are you wearing that tag?” “Is your name ‘The’?” “You must be stupid.” “What’s wrong with you?”

Well, I learned how to spell the word the, but that’s not all I learned. I learned I wasn’t as smart as everybody else, and once again, not enough. And even though I ended up doing well in school, many times I’ve still felt like that little girl in the caboose of the spelling train.

Moses was a man who felt he wasn’t good enough. When God spoke to him through a burning bush and called him to lead His people out of Egyptian bondage, he had a big case of the “not good enoughs.”

That’s when he had a one-sided argument with God. Moses told God he was the wrong man for the job. He wasn’t brave enough, strong enough, smart enough, eloquent enough, charismatic enough, or confident enough.

At one point, Moses said, “Suppose I go to the Israelites and say to them, ‘The God of your fathers has sent me to you,’ and they ask me, ‘What is his name?’ Then what shall I tell them?”

God said to Moses, “I AM WHO I AM. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: ‘I AM has sent me to you’” (Exodus 3:13-15).

Moses was 80 years old when he had his argument with God at the burning bush. But even the weakest knees in the hands of I AM can become a mighty force to be reckoned with.

I’ll go out on a limb and say that you too, at one time or another, will struggle with feelings of inferiority, insecurity, and inadequacy just like Moses did. And the underlying statement feeding the sense of worthlessness is “I’m not __________ enough.” You can fill that blank in with any number of qualities.

But here’s what we need to remember: Whatever we feel we are not, God is. He is the God who fills in our gaps; He is I AM who fills in our blanks.

When we say, “I’m not strong enough,” God says, “I AM.”

When we say, “I’m not wise enough,” God says, “I AM.”

When we say, “I’m not bold enough,” God says, “I AM.”

When we say, “I’m not smart enough,” God says, “I AM.”

When we say, “I’m not good enough,” God says, “I AM.”

Once we let go of the lies that we are not enough and take hold of the truth that we are more than enough because of Jesus’s presence and power in us, then we will be set free from paralyzing insecurity and be on our way to experiencing courageous confidence to do everything He calls us to do. It’s time get out of the caboose and sit up front with the Chief Engineer.

You want to know something amazing? One of my greatest weakness as a child was spelling words. And now that is what God has called me to do today…write with words. I stand with Paul who lamented about his weakness: “But he [God] said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me” (2 Corinthians 12:9 NIV).

That’s what happens when we allow God to fill in our blanks. He turns what we perceive as our greatest weakness into our greatest strengths.

What is God calling you to do today? In what areas do you feel that you’re not enough? Oh friend, because of Jesus Christ’s finished work on the cross, and His power in you, you are more than enough! Don’t forget it.

Let’s Pray

Heavenly Father, so many times I feel like I’m just not good enough, smart enough, wise enough… just not enough, period. Help me to stop focusing on my self-perceived inadequacies and start focusing on Your all-sufficient supply.

In Jesus’ Name,

Amen.

Now It’s Your Turn

Is there any area in your life where you tell yourself that you’re not enough? If so, what is it?

What is God telling you about your true abilities through today’s devotion?

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4 Responses to “When You Feel You’re Not Enough”

  1. Harolene says:

    This,as usual, was right on time. There are things God has been after me to do and I let not good enough get in the way of being a blessing and being blessed. Thank you for reminding me of the Great I Am.
    Again thank you and God bless you abundantly.

  2. Wendy says:

    Hi!
    This is amazing. I know God is talking to me through this verse and devotional. I do another devotional in youversion.com, and it was on exactly the same topic. And, this is where I am in my life right now. 5 years ago, after being perfectly healthy my whole life, my health went rolling away and sickness rolled up in me getting bigger and bigger and here I lye in bed not thinking that I’m not good enough to serve the Lord in my state. What started as a bad gallbladder, a surgeons mistake, losing so much weight my organs were ready to fail, being so dehydrated that I passed out in the shower landing on my head causing disabling traumatic brain injury, being diagnosed with Gastroparesis which messes with your whole digestive system, migraines and just a few months ago dystonia, which means my body makes movements and stiffens like a board whenever it wants! It’s been crazy and there have been times that my light shined just enough to help a roommate in the hospital, a nurse etc. But, I just can’t figure out what God is trying to tell me to do next. I feel like I’ve kinda always known what was coming next in my life until now. I went right from Jefferson University to a pediatric Occupational therapist at duPont Hospital for Children where I worked at for 22 years, right up till my fall. I’m now disabled at 50 years old and feel so weak and nauseous 24/7. I can’t figure out what direction I should go, it’s not clear to me that there are any directions for me to go….but I really think God is directing me and carrying me through this season of my life and I will be able to shine more as he shows me the way. But, what do in the meantime?? Thanks for this very helpful topic and for listening to me. I’m always willing to take suggestions! God Bless! Wendy

  3. Patricia says:

    I am going in to a situation today where I will feel very “compared” to other women at this event. Past messages that I received from my own mother as a young child has forever filled me with doubt about myself. Today at 68 yrs. old, that little girl always speaks in the back of my mind. I will take today’s lesson and prayer with me and remember who I AM. Thank you once again for the perfect message when I needed it.

  4. Al’an says:

    Sharon,

    God works, as always, in such a timely manner!
    It seems anytime I have a speaking engagement I start feeling those old feelings of inadequacy. I first heard you speak at She Speaks a few years ago along with many others that gave me so much wonderful inspiring information on public speaking. I felt the call to reach out to others through my experiences and God’s help after serving at Joni & Friends in NC several years ago and being prompted to do so by a complete stranger, now a encouraging friend, I met there. Public speaking had never been on my radar; actually the farthest thing from it.
    The minute I started my drive home, the first and second time I attended She Speaks, I let Satan shout in my ear that I couldn’t do this; I wasn’t educated enough, I was to awkward after surviving the stroke, I wasn’t smart enough…on and on the list went. I have another woman’s engagement coming up in October and was hearing that same voice say, “ maybe God doesn’t want this for you, maybe you should just cancel”. I know every time I speak at a conference or a church I feel the most joy I have ever felt in my very soul, as people say it has helped or “this is just what I needed to hear”. There is know joy as that of knowing God is moving and has helped through my experiences and His works.
    Thank you for your reminder of Who is in control and that the great I Am can do all things if we step out in faith. “This is just what I needed to hear”.
    Love in Christ,
    Al’an Dyson

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