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Today’s Truth

Set me free from my prison that I might praise your name.

Psalm 142:7

Friend to Friend

When my brother was a teenager, my mother used to threaten him when he hunched over at the dinner table. “If you don’t sit up,” she’d say, “I’m going to buy you a back brace from Sears.” I don’t even know if Sears made back braces back then, but it sounded like a pretty good threat to me.

Then I had a son who grew to six feet seemingly overnight. He didn’t know what to do with all that height, so he slumped. I tried my best not to say, “If you don’t sit up, I’m going to buy you a back brace from Sears.”

Then one night, my father-in-law took care of it for me. We were measuring and marking various family members’ heights on the dining room doorframe. (Yes, you read that correctly—the dining room. Some battles are just not worth fighting). My 77-year-old father-in-law, who stood at about 5’10”, stood with the back of his head against the doorframe. Then he took a deep breath and extended his curved back to its fullest upright position. We marked him at 6’3”.

I watched Steven’s eyes grow wider as Papa grew taller. He saw firsthand the difference it made to stand up straight. Papa was huge, but his bent over frame hid his once strong healthy stature. Steven caught a glimpse of the strappingly strong frame that we once knew. From that day on, Steven stood straight and tall. Never once have I seen him slump since.

That’s what I’m hoping for you. No more slumping in self-doubt or hunching in half-hearted conviction. But rather standing up to the full stature of a confident woman who knows that she is equipped by God, empowered by the Holy Spirit, and enveloped in Jesus Christ.

There are many emotions that cause us to slump spiritually and become crippled emotionally. Worry wears us down. Regret ruins our confidence. Hatred hardens our hearts. Unforgiveness uglies our souls. Bitterness binds our hearts. Insecurity incapacitates our capabilities.

I was crippled for many years. Words from my past told me I was “ugly,” “not good enough,” and “worthless.” Inferiority, insecurity, and inadequacy were my three closes companions. I didn’t like these three lurking shadows, but they followed me everywhere I went. Stalkers, that’s what they were. They stalked me, yelling taunts and accusations that no one heard but me.

The more I listened to them, the more emotionally crippled I became. Then one day, Jesus called me up front. I didn’t want to go, mind you. I had grown comfortable hiding in the back where I felt I belonged. I could hear just fine from my seat along the wall. The lighting wasn’t as good, but it was enough to get by.

But then Jesus saw me and called me forward. It wasn’t that he hadn’t seen me all along. After all, He is El Roi, the God who Sees me. There was never a day when I had not been in His sight. But now the time had come for Him to set me straight in every way. So He called me up front where others could see what He was about to do. Jesus placed his nail-scarred hand under my chin and lifted my eyes to meet his. “Sharon, you are free from your infirmity of self-doubt.”

It wasn’t long after that words began to flow. From pen to paper, God filled me with words that overflowed to encourage and equip other sisters who needed to experience the same liberating freedom in Christ.

So here I am today and you are reading one of my devotions. A previously emotional cripple set straight and shored up by God.

Is there something in your life that is crippling your spirit? Unforgiveness? Bitterness? Resentment? Guilt? Sorrow? Worry? Regret? Comparison? If so, cut it loose with the saber of praise, cast it off, throw it away. God calls us sheep; and sheep are not pack animals. We are not meant to carry such burdens with these scrawny legs of ours. If we try, we will only bend under the pressure we were never meant to bear.

Oh friend, He is calling you right now. Whatever has been holding you back from being all that God has called you to be and do all that God has fashioned you to do…Jesus has come to set you free! Stand up straight! Do you feel the press of his hand on the crook of your back? Do you feel his index finger under the point of your chin?

There’s no doubt in my mind that you are reading this devotion because Jesus is calling you from the shadows to join him center stage. He sees you, and now is the time. You’ve been sitting in the back, in your crippled state far too long. It is time. “Woman, you are set free from your infirmity.”

Let’s Pray

Lord, I’ve been slumping. Slumping from shame. Slumping from regret. Slumping from disappointment with myself. But today, I am praising Your great Name because You are the lifter of my head! I will stand up straight because You have saved me, cleansed me, redeemed me, and healed my soul. Forgive me for slumping under the weight of what You have already removed.

In Jesus’ Name,

Amen.

Now It’s Your Turn

I want to go back and ask the questions I asked in the devotion.

Is there something in your life that is crippling your spirit? Unforgiveness? Bitterness? Resentment? Guilt? Sorrow? Worry? Regret? Comparison? If so, cut it loose, cast it off, throw it away.

Oh friend, He is calling you right now. Whatever has been holding you back from being all that God has called you to be and doing all that God has fashioned you to do…Jesus has come to set you free! Stand up straight! Do you feel the press of his hand on the crook of your back? Do you feel his index finger under the point of your chin?

More From the Girlfriends

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3 Responses to “Stand Up Straight, Girlfriend!”

  1. Beth says:

    Sharon thank you for this good word. It spoke to my heart boldly and clearly. God has called me to a teaching and writing ministry and I’ve wrestled with such doubt. Your words are a breath of encouragement to me to stand tall in the call and fulfill the purpose for which God made me.

  2. Constance says:

    Sharon, your words confirm what God has been doing in my life over the past two years. The Father says He has a lot of work for me to do. I have been shown a part of it, but I know there is more. Almost four months ago, God moved me away from my family and friends in the Northeast to the Midwest. I did not want to go, because I absolutely detest cold weather. However, I am learning that when God calls me to a duty station, He will not take no for an answer. It has not been easy, but God has been doing exciting things in my life since my move.

    About a month after my move, I was traveling out of the country and was at the airport in Miami. On two separate occasions in the airport, I walked away and left my purse and carry-on bag, which held everything I had for my trip. Both times, after about 5-10 minutes, someone rescued them for me. The second time I left it, a woman literally ran the equivalent of two city blocks to catch me and returned my carry-on bag, which I had left in a store. As soon as she left, the Holy Spirit immediately quipped, “Now will you trust Me?” I was startled because the voice was so clear. I subsequently felt overwhelmed by God’s grace and mercy, because He had been asking me to trust Him to work some things out in my life, but I had been all over the place in terms of trusting Him – one minute I did, and the next minute I would be worrying. Well, the clear voice of the Holy Spirit that day has helped me trust God more completely.

    Thank you for your candidness and humility. Girlfriends in God has helped me tremendously since I discovered it 2 years ago. I pray each day that you will continue to allow God to use you to help women to pursue a most intimate relationship with God the Father, Jesus Christ the Son, and the Holy Spirit. I know I need all three of them every day to function properly.

    You are blessed.

  3. Happy Girl says:

    I pray each day that you will continue to allow God to use you to help women to pursue a most intimate relationship with God the Father, Jesus Christ the Son, and the Holy Spirit. I know I need all three of them every day to function properly.

    Good for us!!!

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