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Today’s Truth

Give thanks to the God of heaven. His love endures forever.

Psalm 136:26

Friend to Friend

I heard the doorbell ring, but I had absolutely no desire to answer it. I was desperately trying to withdraw from my world. It was too dark and too painful. I just wanted to be left alone.

Clinical depression was sucking the life out of me. I was seeing a counselor. I was also under the care of a psychiatrist who discovered I had a chemical imbalance that required medication. But it would be a long, hard road.

The doorbell rang again. I pulled the covers over my head, determined to outlast whoever was trying to work their way into my pain. It was easier to just surrender to the darkness than it was to struggle my way to the light.

The doorbell stopped ringing. Whew! I was so glad I had dodged that bullet.

Nope.

A loud knocking ensued … followed by the voice of Michelle, my best friend declaring, “Mary, I know you are in there. I am coming in to clean your house, and I have groceries for you in my car. I don’t care what you or your house look like, but I am coming in one way or another.” If it had been anyone else, I might have had a chance. But Michelle Johnson would bulldoze her way through the front door if necessary to get to me.

Love shows up.

Over the years Michelle has been “God with skin on” in my life so many times and in so many ways. She never has waited until I asked for help … she has just showed up to meet whatever need I have had in my life.

During the two worst years of my battle with clinical depression, Michelle did the things I could not do. She bought groceries, picked up cleaning, lined up meals, took our kids to buy soccer cleats, and just listened as I poured out my pain. Sometimes she called and invited me to walk the half-block down the street to her house. But some days that half-block might as well have been a thousand miles, so she came to me. Her friendship is a priceless gift.

Now that I think about it, some of my best friends are people who saw a need in my life and met it. In fact, the most precious friend I have saw my greatest need and met it.

Jesus looked through my sin and shame and saw my need. And oh how He showed up!

God’s love compelled Jesus Christ to willingly exchange a throne for a manger, divinity for humanity and Heaven for Earth.

For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16, NIV).

God’s love changes everything and everyone who receives it. God’s love protects and breathes life and purpose into every minute of every day. God’s love is a gift beyond measure that surrounds us and covers us when life falls apart.

Do not believe the lies of the enemy when he tells you that your God has forsaken you. God is with you – Emmanuel. He endured the cross, completely and absolutely alone, because He loves you.

No one can take your place in the Father’s heart. God knows your pain and He understands. God created you and paid for your sin for one reason alone – He loves you. And true love always shows up.

Let’s Pray

Thank You for loving me, God. Honestly, I don’t understand that kind of love; a love that sent Jesus Christ to the cross so that I can live. But today, I celebrate Your love! Father. Please help me learn how to freely share that love with the people in my world.

In Jesus’ Name,

Amen.

Now It’s Your Turn

Look around. Someone in your world needs to know Jesus. What can you do to help them experience the love of God? Make a plan … and then do it!

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8 Responses to “God’s Love Showed Up!”

  1. Sharon Laas says:

    Reading your testimony truly hit home. I too am in a dark place, battling depression, hurting and no support system. Absolutely, I receive the Lord’s unconditional love, but it seems so distant now and I’m reaching and reaching only to grasp empty air.
    I am having to take several medications for the Addison’s disease which I was diagnosed with 10 or more yrs.ago. No doubt these have adverse side effects.
    None the less, they are necessary & I hate them. I will be 70 yrs. old next month and I need to get a plan for the remaining yrs. It feels so overwhelming but I totally lean upon the Word which says that “I can do all things through Christ Jesus who STRENGTHENS me”! Praise God!
    Thanks for sharing;it helps me to remember that I am not alone.

    • Beautiful almost 70yrs. young, no you are not alone. None of us are. May God, cover you with healing and anoint the hands and minds of the Dr.(s)and nurses(s) and take care of you. You, are precious! God Bless

  2. Delia says:

    This is exactly what I needed today, Thank you!!!!!

  3. I have seen depression work on even strong Christain women, how wonderful to have a friend like that.

  4. Abby says:

    I am also in a deep, dark place, dealing with depression. I take medication & am seeing a counselor. There is no reason I should be depressed, but I am. I wish I has a friend like Michelle. Everyone is busy with their own life. I wish I had a physical problem, then people would understand.

  5. How would one help if the person refuses to answer the door, etc. Sometimes, even friends aren’t allowed in when the pain is so bad. Thanks

  6. Jean says:

    This story makes me sad because I’ve never had a friend , that would put that much effort/time into me.

  7. I am so sorry that many of you feel so alone. You are right, Abby. Having a physical problem would probably be easier for people to respond to. I have learned the hard way that in order to have friends like Michelle … I have to be a friend like Michelle. Honestly, this is hard for me to remember. Friendship is like a boomerang. What you give comes back to you. I have to constantly remind myself to look for a need in the life of others and meet it. When I do, it always comes back to bless me. I pray God blesses you all with precious friends.

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